Deciding What You Want in Life.

by Jorge Fernandez de Cordova

What is that you really want in life?

We probably want a lot of things right? But what is the thing that we want most? How do you recognize it?

When I was 16 years old (Legal age to drive with a permit and an adult accompanying you) all that I really wanted back then was a 1968 Mustang, with a 302 engine, and a 3 speed transmission. I didn't really care about the conditions, all I wanted was a Mustang that met that criteria.

Well back then I didn't know how to attract things into my life. So it took me 8 years to get my 1968 Mustang, with a 302 engine, and a 3 speed transmission. The condition is that it needed a lot of work. But remember what I said? I didn't care about the conditions, so I got what I wanted exactly what I wanted in. If I only knew what I know now, maybe that Mustang would have came faster than expected, and in better conditions.

When you really want something in your life, it will come to you. As a matter of fact by the time you think about it, it's already yours, but how do you get it?

The key is to be CLEAR on what you truly desire, how much energy you are going to put behind that it is what you want. Be careful on what you wish for. Because you will attract it into your life. Just like the Mustang I wanted, you will get yours too.

So how do you attract it too?

Write on a piece of paper the 10 things that you really want. Next you have to be honest with yourself here. Rank each one of them from 0 to 10. BE HONEST!!!

How do you know if one of them is a 10? You will feel it in your heart right away. Is that thing that makes your energy spark. That's how you'll know.

Now discard everything is 9 and below and concentrate on your 10's. Describe what is that you want very detailed, exactly what you want to see and have.

Now picture it in your head as if you already have it.

The universe will know when is time for you to get it. And when that time comes. You won't even know how it got there. But you will enjoy it as much as I did and continue to enjoy my car.

The best thing of all is that you can do this over and over and over again. In every area of your life.

Try it and let me know what happens?

For your Success,

Jorge Fernandez de Cordova

Success Coach

www.successismylife.com

Happy Memorial Day!

Wishing you the BEST!

Your Coach,
Jorge Fernandez de Cordova

When People Label You….

How many times have you heard people telling you things like “You will be good as a Dj in a radio station, What you do should be shown on TV, You should be a model instead of being working here, you are a looser, you are good for nothing, etc.” and the list goes on.

Well, these are only the opinions of other people, but how does this affect us.

How do you perceive yourself? What is that you want to do?

Most people get influenced by the labels that people put on us. They repeat it so much that we get to the point where we actually believe it. Then we go after it, and we ended up discovering that we weren’t good at that, and we start getting frustrated.

We go through life waiting for other people to decide what should we do, be of have, by the labels they put on us. Is that really worth it?

Let me ask you…

If a person tells you that you will never be successful in life, but that person is broker than broke and has never done nothing in their life, will you believe what he is telling you?

Or viceversa, a very successful entrepreneur tells you that you are going to be the best and achieve all of your goals, will you believe it?

The answer lies within you. I can tell you how great you are and successful, but if you don’t believe it, and you don’t act upon it. Is it going to happen? Maybe not.

Let me share a quick story about a 9 year old kid.

One day in elementary school, one of the teachers call a 9 year old kid in front of the entire class. Once he was standing in front, he told the entire class “Take a good look a this kid right here. This guy is a perfect example of a looser. A person that will never achieve anything in his life, a person that might end up living homeless…”

How do you think that would have affected a 9 year old kid? Probably destroyed all of his goals and dreams, maybe the teacher was right, maybe he was wrong. That’s just a label that he is putting in this little kid. Good thing that the 9 year old kid did not let other people’s opinions and labels affect him.

How do I know that??

Well, that 9 year old kid was me.

That’s right I was the little kid facing that whole crowd and had to put up with all the criticism and jokes.

But you know what? I’m the only one in that class that has 4 businesses, and growing.

Don’t let other people’s opinions affect you in any way shape or form, whether is a good opinion or a bad opinion. The best opinion is the one that you give yourself, and you act on it.

When people tell you “You are a looser” simply reply “I’m sorry you feel that way, thank you” if they tell you “You are awesome, you should be an instructor.” Just tell them “Thank you, I’ll keep that in mind.”

Most importantly is how do you see yourself.

For a life full of abundance and prosperity,

Your Coach,
Jorge Fernandez de Cordova
www.successismylife.com

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How Do You Feel About Yourself? Honestly...

How Do You Feel About Yourself? Honestly...

By Jorge Fernandez de Cordova | Date Submitted: 01/06/07

Keywords: goal success achieve self-esteem grow success coach money successful
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Summary: The universe doesn’t distinguish between good or bad, right or wrong, and whatever is that you are telling yourself you will get

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The size of your goals will increase in proportion to your self-esteem. What do I mean by that?

When you have low self-esteem, all you attract is negative situations and influences to your life, and that eventually will prevent you from reaching your goals.

How do you feel around your clients if you have a business, or deal with clients? What about in a relationship?

Take a close look and you will discover that you only associate with people you feel worthy of being with. This include your personal relations with friends as well.

Most people look at rich and successful people with fear. WHY? Well is because of their self-esteem. They feel powerless, unworthy, and that is exactly what you will attract to your life.

Take a look at your possessions, even the money you make. Why don’t you ask for more? Because you feel you don’t deserve it. You dram to yourself that which you feel you are worthy of receiving, whether is the car you drive, the clothes you wear, the home you live in.

The bottom line is that the quality of your life is determined by your self-esteem or self-worth.

What kind of labels are you putting to yourself?

Everyone puts labels on them and we have them in bunch. We call ourselves “shy, warm, friendly, good leader, short-tempered, lazy, poor, etc, etc…” and the list goes on.

You must be careful on how do you talk to yourself. Words are powerful. You can do more damage to a person with words, than with a punch.

So how do you talk to yourself?

Do you auto-destruct or do you help yourself.

The universe doesn’t distinguish between good or bad, right or wrong, and whatever is that you are telling yourself you will get, for example; Have you ever hear people saying “I never have money, I can’t go because I don’t have any money, I can’t buy it because it’s too expensive and I don’t have the money, etc, etc.” right? So what happens to this people? They keep telling the universe “I don’t have money” and when they get it, the universe says “I remember now… you don’t have money” and your money disappears in useless stuff.

Instead change the way you talk to yourself. The easiest way is to talk to yourself and act as if you already have it. Ok, ok you might think I’m going crazy now, and you probably won’t even believe it, but the thing is this. If you keep doing what you have been doing. You will keep getting what you have been getting.

Picture yourself already living like you want to live, with the money you would like to have, how do you see yourself living that life? See it in your mind and feel the emotion as if you already own it.

My challenge for you is this. Do it for 30 days two times a day. I’m going to warn you, a lot of people quit way too soon before starting. Try it, take the challenge and see what happens. The worst thing that can happen is that for 30 days you will start becoming clearer on what is it that you want and you will find the real you hiding inside.

Do it and let me know what happened.

For your Success, Jorge Fernandez de Cordova Success Coach www.successismylife.com

jorge@successismylife.com
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Jorge's Mission is to give those that truly desire it; the tools and the knowledge to get the most out of life helping you achieve your goals and dreams.

Quitting is NOT an OPTION!!!

Some people quit before even starting.

Persevere and you will achieve.

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"Facing the Giants."



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