You Have to Change First to Change the World

"If you do what others won't, You will get what others won't...."

I came across a person today, that all you could hear coming out of his mouth was complaint after complaint after complaint.

I approached him and ask him what was going on? His answer was "I'm tired of always having to work for somebodyelse, I can't wait until I retire so I can be FREE" (By the way this person is in it's mid 30's, Long way to go for his retirement)

I was like WHAT?? I told him "Why wait until your retirement if you can probably start your own business or do something more."

His answer was "I'm not the kind of person that will own a business."

At that time I told him "Bye bye, got to go." turn around and left. Why did I do that? you might say "Oh you are rude."

Well I will tell you why, because he is TOXIC. First you complaint, and when you get a solution you turn it down.

I cannot stand for one second people not wanting to succeed. It kills me inside seeing so many people out there with great potential to make something UNBELIEVABLE with their lives, something IMPORTANT, and most people say NO.

Most of that has to do a lot with your thought process.

Until you learn how to change it and train it to work for you, you will always be the same.

"If you don't make a change, your life will be like this forever. Is it really what you want?"

Life is a matter of choices, and the choice is yours.

are you willing to take the next step? are you ready to learn how to get what others won't?

If you are, I invite you to subscribe to my newsletter where I'll help you achieve whatever it is that you want to achieve.

Stop complaining and start acting. Action is what makes successful people what they are, they are not any more special than you.

YOU have a gift hidden inside. Let me help you find it, so you can achieve that DREAM you had been waiting for.

For your SUCCESS,

Jorge Fernandez de Cordova

www.successismylife.com

Who are you surrounded by....?

“If you associate with turkeys, you will never fly with the

eagles.”

-Brian Tracy

Who you surround yourself with will determine how far you go.

After I decided to start my own business, decision

making became pretty simple for me. I knew that every action I

took in the next four years was either going to get me closer to

my goal or pull me away from my goal.

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Everything I did would make a difference. Even the people I

associated with...

There are two kinds of people in the world. They are either on

your team or they are not in your team. They are either on your

dream team or they are not. People will push you up, or they

pull you down. If they doubt you can do it, they could steal

your dream away!

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Associating with negative people makes us think negatively, I

call these people “TOXIC PEOPLE.” Close contact with toxic

individuals develops toxic habits in us. On the other hand, a

relationship with people with big ideas raises the level of our

thinking; close contact with ambitious people helps make us more

ambitious.

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Do you know Hernan Cortez? The Conqueror of

"In the spring of 1519 a Spanish fleet set sail

Cortez told his sailors this mission must not fail

On the eastern shore of they landed with great dreams

But the hardships of the new world made them restless and weak

Quietly they whispered, "Let’s sail back to the life we knew"

But the one who led them there was saying:

Burn the ships, we’re here to stay

There’s no way we could go back

Now that we’ve come this far by faith

Burn the ships, we’ve passed the point of no return

Our life is here

So let the ships burn…"

This can also be applied to your life. To move forward in your

life, you have to let go of everything that is holding you back,

in this case you have to “BURN THE SHIPS” you don’t want to go

back. You are here to stay and to move forward in life.

Do as Hernan Cortez and conquer new worlds, and new frontiers.

I want to see you Succeed!

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For the best in YOU,

Your Coach,
Jorge Fernandez de Cordova
www.successismylife.com

When People Label You….

When People Label You….

How many times have you heard people telling you things like “You will be good as a Dj in a radio station, What you do should be shown on TV, You should be a model instead of being working here, you are a looser, you are good for nothing, etc.” and the list goes on.

Well, these are only the opinions of other people, but how does this affect us.

How do you perceive yourself? What is that you want to do?

Most people get influenced by the labels that people put on us. They repeat it so much that we get to the point where we actually believe it. Then we go after it, and we ended up discovering that we weren’t good at that, and we start getting frustrated.

We go through life waiting for other people to decide what should we do, be of have, by the labels they put on us. Is that really worth it?

Let me ask you…

If a person tells you that you will never be successful in life, but that person is broker than broke and has never done nothing in their life, will you believe what he is telling you?

Or viceversa, a very successful entrepreneur tells you that you are going to be the best and achieve all of your goals, will you believe it?

The answer lies within you. I can tell you how great you are and successful, but if you don’t believe it, and you don’t act upon it. Is it going to happen? Maybe not.

Let me share a quick story about a 9 year old kid.

One day in elementary school, one of the teachers call a 9 year old kid in front of the entire class. Once he was standing in front, he told the entire class “Take a good look a this kid right here. This guy is a perfect example of a looser. A person that will never achieve anything in his life, a person that might end up living homeless…”

How do you think that would have affected a 9 year old kid? Probably destroyed all of his goals and dreams, maybe the teacher was right, maybe he was wrong. That’s just a label that he is putting in this little kid. Good thing that the 9 year old kid did not let other people’s opinions and labels affect him.

How do I know that??

Well, that 9 year old kid was me.

That’s right I was the little kid facing that whole crowd and had to put up with all the criticism and jokes.

But you know what? I’m the only one in that class that has 4 businesses, and growing.

Don’t let other people’s opinions affect you in any way shape or form, whether is a good opinion or a bad opinion. The best opinion is the one that you give yourself, and you act on it.

When people tell you “You are a looser” simply reply “I’m sorry you feel that way, thank you” if they tell you “You are awesome, you should be an instructor.” Just tell them “Thank you, I’ll keep that in mind.”

Most importantly is how do you see yourself.

For a life full of abundance and prosperity,

Your Coach,
Jorge Fernandez de Cordova
www.successismylife.com

At least 20 a day...

Hello dear reader,

If you are not making at least 20 mistakes a day, you are not

trying to become successful hard enough.

Read that again.

You might think I’m crazy, but let me tell you,

mistakes is what makes us grow.

Learn from them, take the good positive stuff of the situation,

and learn from the lesson.

Rich and Successful people do make mistakes all of the time, but

they know that if they are not making mistakes, they are not

learning and growing.

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You might try to avoid mistakes for fear of being uncomfortable.

That’s the thing that Successful people do BEST.

They are willing to be uncomfortable, they are comfortable at

being uncomfortable, that will allow them to have a big comfort

zone, and that’s why they take BIG risks.

If you don’t risk you won’t win.

Stop playing small. Doing that, you won’t allow yourself to

reach your potential.

I know you are very unique in every aspect, show the world who

you are and that you are proud of it, and if you make a mistake,

GREAT!! Learn from it, that will help you be the BEST you can

be.

You are special and unique, don’t destroy yourself

playing little, instead PLAY BIG, because you will WIN!!!

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Your Coach,

Jorge Fernandez de Cordova

www.successismylife.com

My friend cannot thank me enough!!!

My friend cannot thank me enough,

A week ago, a friend of mine bought my e-book online.

I didn’t even know he had bought it!!!

Today I received an e-mail from him thanking me, I added his

e-mail so you can read it.

Your Coach,

Jorge Fernandez de Cordova

www.successismylife.com

P.S. Get your copy NOW!!! I don’t know how much longer I’m going

to keep the price low.

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From: JOSE C.

To: Fernandez de Cordova, Jorge

Subject: Thank You

My Dear Friend Jorge,

I don’t find words to thank you enough for writing

this powerful e-book. You don’t imagine the success I’ve been

having ever since I bought it and read it.

I’m going to be honest with you, I bought the book for two

reasons. The main reason because I didn’t know what was going

wrong in my success life. I’ve tried everything and done

everything but it seemed that I could never reach my goals until

I read your book I found out the key point that was holding me

back.

The second reason, I needed a way out, something that I could

read that will make me more productive, and the action steps you

added, had made my goals crystal clear, and to be honest you are

selling your book too cheap, you can easily sell that for a lot

more, so I’m pretty sure I got a great deal.

Seriously you are loosing too much money with that price I think

you should raise the price, but hey!!! That’s your decision.

Let me congratulate you once again, and tell you that I really

admire your success and time you dedicate to help others.

Friends like you are very hard to find

Sincerely,

Jose C.

And Family.

P.S. Take my advice on raising the price.
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Help us Help the Children!

What are you willing to sacrifice to make Success happen?

Let me tell you what winners do.

They do whatever it takes to get the job done.

They do it and do it and do it until the job gets done, and then

they talk about how great it is to be somebody they’re Proud of.

Becoming a winner is simple, but is not easy. It requires hard

work, dedication and discipline. Not just hard work, you can

always be working hard but with the wrong attitude, mentality,

and decisions. Success doesn’t work that way.

The main focus here is discipline.

You have to discipline yourself to do the things you don’t feel

like doing, but you know they need to get done no matter what.

There’s a very fine line between winners and losers.

The winners don’t like everything that comes with success

either, but they focus on the rewards, and that’s why they go

out of their way to discipline themselves to do the things that

need to be done.

Focus on the rewards. Winners look at things from the end

result first, they don’t worry about the process. If you have a

clear goal in mind, and you focus on the rewards, the process is

even fun.

Practice Discipline on everything you do.

This is another habit that you need to create to keep moving

forward towards success.

Don’t wait!!! Start TODAY.

Do it NOW!!

For your Success,

Jorge Fernandez de Cordova

Success Coach

www.successismylife.com